How to Get Encouragement for the Writing Life.

Getting major encouragement for writing can be difficult. Many people don't know the work one has to put into a piece. Most people don't know the hard work, rejection, and discouragement in trying to publish. But here are some ideas.

• First, make sure those closest to you (spouse, older children) understand that you need time alone to write. They don't have to understand it, but they do need to respect it. If you take yourself seriously, others are more likely to take you seriously too.
• Use social media. Give brief updates on projects, progress, rejections, and acceptances. People will at least acknowledge this, and that can be unexpectedly valuable.
• Stay connected to other writers. They can encourage you, and they know what you are going through. They will also know exactly how rare and valuable an acceptance it.
• Educate those closest to you about the pile of rejections, the revisions, the anticipation, the daily work. If you need a particular kind of encouragement or help, ask for it.
• Join a class (try continuing education at a community college) or workshop group. These people will understand, at least eventually.
• Get books. Sometimes, only a book knows what to say. Try SARK's Juicy Pens, Thirsy Paper or Natalie Goldberg's Writing Down the Bones.